Part 02 - The Vocabulary (Building Blocks) · 2.2 Society, Structure and the Individual
In-Groups, Out-Groups, Reference Groups, Peer Groups
Us, them, and the people you secretly measure yourself against
Lesson 2.2.515 min read
Belonging to a group does something immediate. It draws a line — and everyone on the other side of it becomes, in some measure, them.
This lesson takes four concepts that describe how membership organises perception: the group you are in, the group you are not, the group you measure yourself against, and the group of your equals.
In-group and out-group
The terms come from William Graham Sumner (1906) — the same book as folkways (2.1.3) and ethnocentrism (2.1.8), and the connection is not accidental. For Sumner, ethnocentrism is the in-group's view of itself as the centre and standard.
Four well-documented consequences of the in-group/out-group division, each with sociological rather than merely psychological significance:
In-group favouritism. Members are given the benefit of the doubt, preferential treatment, and more generous interpretations of their behaviour. Note that in most real settings, discrimination operates far more through favouring one's own than through overt hostility — which is why it is so hard to detect and so easy to deny. The referral network in 1.3.2's job interview was in-group favouritism, and nobody in it was hostile to anybody.
Out-group homogeneity. "They are all the same"; "we" are individuals with differences. This is why members of a dominant group experience themselves as persons and members of a marked group are experienced as representatives (2.1.12, 2.2.2's tokens).
Attribution asymmetry. An in-group member's good act reflects character and their bad act reflects circumstances; for an out-group member the attributions reverse. This is the fundamental attribution error (1.4.1) with a boundary added, and it is the engine of a great deal of stable prejudice.
Boundary maintenance. Effort is spent policing who counts as a member — 2.1.7's boundary work, and 2.1.5's symbolic boundaries. Note that the boundary usually matters more than the content: what defines "us" is frequently just not being them.
Reference groups: the people you measure yourself against
A distinct and enormously useful concept, introduced by Herbert Hyman and developed by Merton (5.1).
The crucial move is that last clause. Your reference group need not be your membership group. People routinely take their standards from groups they aspire to join, and evaluate their lives against the situation of people they do not know.
Two mechanisms follow, and both are among the most useful ideas in Part 2.
Anticipatory socialisation. Adopting the values, manners, speech and outlook of a group you hope to enter, before entering it. The student who begins dressing and speaking like the profession she intends to join; the migrant learning the destination's codes before departure; the junior officer who starts thinking like a senior one. Merton's finding was that anticipatory socialisation predicts advancement in open systems — and produces isolation in closed ones, because if you cannot in fact enter, you have distanced yourself from your own group for nothing (2.1.9's cleft habitus).
Relative deprivation. Dissatisfaction depends not on absolute conditions but on comparison with a reference group. This came out of The American Soldier — the same study behind Lazarsfeld's reversal in 1.4.6 — and produced a genuinely counterintuitive finding: military police, whose promotion prospects were poor, reported greater satisfaction with promotion than air corpsmen, whose prospects were excellent. Because in a unit where few are promoted, not being promoted is normal; where many are, it is a personal failure.
That single finding explains an enormous amount that puzzles people:
Why rising prosperity can be accompanied by rising discontent.
Why revolutions frequently occur during periods of improvement rather than at the depths of misery (11.2).
Why people compare themselves with neighbours and colleagues rather than with the very rich, and why segregation therefore dampens resentment (1.2.2).
Why a pay rise that everyone receives feels different from the same rise given to you alone.
Practical consequence: if you want to understand someone's grievance, do not measure their conditions. Find out whom they are comparing themselves with.
Peer groups
Its distinguishing feature is horizontality. Family, school and workplace are all vertical: someone is in charge. The peer group is where a person deals with equals, and that makes it a distinctive socialising environment (2.3).
Three things worth knowing:
It is the first group most people choose. Family is ascribed; peers are, in some measure, selected. This makes the peer group the first arena in which a person practises being someone in particular.
Its influence peaks in adolescence — not because of the psychology of teenagers alone, but because of a structural fact: modern societies place large numbers of same-age people together in institutions for years, with limited adult supervision of their interactions, at exactly the age when adult roles are being anticipated. Age-graded schooling manufactures peer groups (9.2). Societies without it produce a different adolescence.
And it is where subcultural formation happens (2.1.7): a peer group with a status hierarchy of its own is precisely the alternative scoreboard that lesson described.
Go deeper
Which lines become salient, and why
Return to the puzzle. If any line can produce in-group favouritism, the sociological question is which lines a society activates.
Four observations from the research on ethnic and communal conflict (8.5, 9.5, 11.2):
Salient boundaries are made, not found. Categories that were once locally fluid can be hardened by administration, politics and violence. The colonial census in India, by requiring one caste and one religion per person, contributed to converting flexible local identities into countable political blocs (1.3.3, 6.2.1). Nations are, in Anderson's phrase, imagined communities — real, powerful, and constructed within recent history (9.5).
Entrepreneurs activate them. Boundaries do not become politically salient by themselves. Specific people and organisations benefit from mobilising them, and the timing of communal or ethnic polarisation usually tracks political competition better than it tracks any underlying cultural difference.
Structural conditions matter. Competition over scarce resources, segregation that reduces cross-cutting ties, and institutions that allocate by category all raise salience.
Cross-cutting ties reduce it. Where people's group memberships overlap in complex ways — a trade union containing several religions, a neighbourhood mixing castes, intermarriage — a single line cannot cleanly divide the population, and mobilisation becomes harder. Ashutosh Varshney's comparative study of Indian cities found that towns with dense inter-communal civic associations — business groups, unions, clubs, festivals organised jointly — had substantially fewer communal riots than otherwise similar towns without them. Everyday cross-cutting association, not merely goodwill, did the work.
That last finding is worth carrying, because it converts an apparently intractable problem into an institutional one.
Social identity theory, and sociology's caution
Tajfel and Turner's social identity theory proposes that people derive part of their self-concept from group memberships, and are therefore motivated to see their groups as positively distinct — which explains the minimal group results.
Sociology's response should be neither dismissal nor adoption. The mechanism is real and well-evidenced at the level of individual cognition. What it cannot do is explain the content: which groups exist, which are ranked, which are enforced by law and violence, and why the same two groups coexist for a century and then do not. Those require history, institutions and power.
Use social identity theory to explain the readiness. Use sociology to explain the arrangement. This is 1.4.1's division of labour, applied to a real case.
Why it matters
It explains grievance better than any measure of conditions. Relative deprivation is the single most useful idea in this lesson: to understand dissatisfaction, find the comparison. It applies to a workplace, a marriage, a caste, a region and a nation.
It shows where prejudice actually lives. Not primarily in hostility but in favouritism, homogeneity perception, and asymmetric attribution — mechanisms that operate in decent people who would sincerely deny prejudice, and which therefore require structural rather than attitudinal remedies.
It identifies a workable lever. Cross-cutting ties and superordinate goals are among the best-evidenced instruments for reducing intergroup hostility, and both are institutional: they can be built.
And it teaches you how to use a famous study. Which is a skill Part 7 will demand of you continuously, and which separates a reader from a repeater.